Wender rhymes with:
bender, blender, brender, brendor, callender, cavender, challender, contender, defender, ender, engender, fender, gender, kender, lender, offender, pender, pretender, render, schlender, sender, skender, slender, spender, splendor, stender, surrender, suspender, tender, transgender, vendor, yender, zehnder, zender
Wender sounds like:
wander, wanderer, wandrey, winder, winter, winther, wintour, wintry, wonder, wondra, wunder, wynter